“When
we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us.
When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that
we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody
more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit
that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of
us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it
for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and
to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.”
- Tom Robbins
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